I hear a first lady from the South South doesn’t like me, her business.
She was in a conversation and mentioned that she didnt like me and called me a Mysogynist
I get called that a lot even though I really do not know the true meaning and how it relates to me
Me, I love women. I have married them, have them as sister, have them as daughters and have befriended very plenty of them
So I really do love them and celebrate them.
80% of my business is run and staffed by women and some of my best friends are women.
Ask Bikiya Graham Douglas or Tosin Adefeko and they will tell you just how much fun we have being good friends
But you see, I am making it my lifes duty to tell women the truth and the reason behind this is to save upcoming generations especially our young girls from the stupidity that is modern Nigerian womanhood
Our men today have been defeated. They have been beaten black and blue to the point that they grovel in their cowardice and hide there shame in between the legs of post teen girls and cold bottles of beer
They call me and say-Edgar, you are a man and I envy you for the things you say and do
Dont envy me abeg, go and keep bowing your head to your wife and let her keep opening her beautiful thighs and be peeing over your head
You see, yday during the talk on Arisetv, it was very clear to me, that women have seized power and sad thing is that they don’t even know how to use it
They have won by manipulating the system and our minds, converging in herds and shouting you down with taunts and yodels making you run for peace
What kind of stupid peace is that, that would castrate you and watch you seek permission from your wife for your mother to visit when her mother lives with u rent free?
See, what I want men to understand this morning is the dichotomy between father and husband
These are mutually exclusive roles that have nothing to do with each other
The only connection is the sex to procreate and once that is done, a man is now father and husband
Women in their wisdom gotten from their mother Eve, have cleverly tied the two, such that being a bad husband automatically makes you a bad father
And our men have swallowed that in its totality
How cheating on a spouse turns you into a bad father is something that i can not even begin to understand, I mean did u take your vows with your children or the one you are cheating on?
What has happened is that the woman being closest to the children have used them like human shields to fight their battles all of these years
They project their hurt on the children by dragging them into something that does not concern them
Ohh your father has a girlfriend, your father is cheating on us, your father is distracted, that is girlfriend is not letting him love you etc
Na lie. I am telling you guys categorically that you can be a bad husband and still be a good father
I have plenty friends who love their children to pieces eventhough they can be labelled as bad husbands
Our men are worse than the devil in some of these things, even me I know.
Most men will cheat if they are sure they can handle the consequences
Very few can resist the slow opening of those thighs.
Those who do, can, either as a result of old age, sickness, financial reasons, bad experience and the like
A few like myself have run out of steam after doing – papa was a rolling stone – for years and have now hung our boots
But truth, every man is a potential serial cheat.
It is as a result of these that women, living in the absurdity of their faux eldorado fuelled by unrealistic approach to love and relationships and being faced by the reality of a cheating spouse pull the children into the fight
I was once confronted by my favourite child – Chantal
Joe, you cheated on us – she said with tears and I calmly hugged her and said – baby God forbid that I cheated on you, I cheated on your mother. Thank you
That is the fact. Cheating on the mother does not in any way mean that I love my children less or that I will not stand by them?
Any man who allows a woman, be it wife or girlfriend or even his mother come between him and his children is a bastard and I wont stand for that
This is not advocating for cheating men but trying to roll back the narrative that have blurred very successfully the very strong lines between a father and a husband
Men can play both roles very easily as they come with different expectations, so women should just stop that rubbish of using the children as weapons in a war that really does not concern them
But instead, should look within and ask themselves why the man are still running around
Let me reveal a secret this morning – once a man has crossed 50, he begins to slow down.
What is chasing him is no longer pussy but legacy. He needs peace and stability either to consolidate or build very quickly
I tell you anyman cheating at over 50 is looking for someone or something he cannot find in his marriage. You can go and verify
So instead of our women dragging the children into the matter or jumping from one therapist or the another, they should search themselves
Finally, a perfect Father can be a perfect Cheat all is in the hands of the woman who claims to be his missing rib
Thank you
You may come and beat me now
Duke of Shomolu