This is the most vile and arrogantly stupid thing any man can say to a woman
The stupidity of this statement is way up there with the – no justification to beat a woman-in my books
It just dawned on me this morning that as we fight to regain control, there is an absolute need for us to prepare and retrain our men.
I just saw something now at a filling station. A lady was buying fuel, and something dropped from her car.
She asked the male attendant to assist her in picking up, and he replied, ‘Do I look like your mate?’
I was aghast and rushed to help the lady pick up the stuff, which was a wallet
My friend Nonny told me yesterday that her strength as a woman is in her ability to love and respect her man, and likewise, a man’s strength is the way he loves and protects his woman
A man is a man when he is chivalrous to every woman that he comes across, and not only the one he wants to shag
He must respect, protect, build, guide and push the woman no matter who in his daily interaction
This is when these women will respect us and allow us to lead, which was God’s original intention.
Women are beautiful creatures, misguided most times, but God’s most wonderfully created beings
They are so beautiful, see their skin, their thighs, their emotional state, their kindness and their love
They flourish in love, in a protective environment and in support
A woman surrounded by positive energy is the best thing that can happen to a man
It is the stupidity of men like this attendant that has made women run mad, as they have been built to react
In dealing with women, a smile will go a long way for u.
Whether it’s a contract, selling fuel, looking for a job or looking for the next shag
Respect and compliments are the only currencies they know. When you disrespect them, you get the full power of their mouth
When you respect and commend them, you get them putty, and there would be no need to hear a policeman or pastor telling you, no justification to hit a woman.
Please, my brothers, use words and phrases like – madam, how are you today, you look really sweet, may I kindly assist, my Queen, Nkem, my life, my angel and other such nice entreties must always be the palm oil of your conversations with your spouse
For the general women you would meet in your day-to-day runnings –
You must learn how to be courteous, smile, shake hands, give a side hug, open doors, pull out a chair, offer compliments, and say thank you.
You are not a king if you are brutish and disrespectful.
You must also know when to draw boundaries. At that point, you firmly push back without being rude.
Men are also part of the problem, and as previously stated, to regain lost ground, we must retrain ourselves so that we can reclaim leadership with class.
Please walk up to any woman near you after reading this article and say – You really look fantastic today, God bless you and see the smile you will get
This thing is easy.
Let’s regain our power with sense
Thanks, my brothers
Duke of Shomolu
Last modified: October 24, 2025
