With her announced desire to be a second wife, superstar songstress Tiwa Savage has blown the Nigerian version of feminism back 20 years
The little things they have achieved, she just carried her big buttocks and sat on them all, mashed them and threw them into the dustbin
When I read the comment, I laughed at the so-called Independent strong women and also felt pity for the stupid men who have lost their crown and allow themselves to be trampled by these women under the so-called modern-day man.
Tiwa’s scream just reaffirmed the notion of male superiority in our society
So the fact that we allow for partnership, engagement, doesn’t mean that we should lose control and be made second fiddles in our homes
When you speak with these faux feminists and women champion advocates, all you hear is – I am a strong woman, I am independent, and I don’t need a man to validate me
Tiwa is independent, strong and more successful than 90% of these goons, but today, she has bowed to the eternal truth that she must be under a man even as a second wife
That is her, despite her enormous success, still needing the cover of a man, and rightly so.
Very few of our women are wise these days.
The minority who are wise, hide under their men, treat them with respect, throw up a cover over them and basically call them their king
A wise woman will call u – My love, my King, Obim, my sweetie.
She will literally worship the floor he walks on. She will turn the other cheek, she will soothe him, she will kneel down and watch him eat
Shebi we all dey watch Nollywood Film. See how the nice young virgin girl dey treat her prince – that is what I am talkin about
Then, come and see how the man will react.. He will be proud of her. He will protect her, care for her, build her, watch her flourish, and he will be calling her – Nkem, my Queen, Aya mi, Awan ima, my damsel
Our women of today often seem to lack common sense. They want to lock horns, they want to show power, they want to seize power, they want to be the power
When the consequences of the action hit them, like they always do, they will be shouting like Tiwa – I’m looking for husband, or they will go and buy sperm like her sister Toke.
We have always known that behind most feminist or all these so-called strong women, are stories of frustration
Their thick-headedness leads to an inability to build healthy relationships, and the consequent frustration that now fuels the advocacy of yeye and mumu women.
Our young girls need to be protected from these women, as they misguide and misdirect them
The young girls would be gullibly herded towards Golgotha, and when it is too late, they will shout – I want to be a second wife
Our daughters must be taught how to respect Men, see Men as their crown, and begin to play the role our mothers played – partners and helpers, not the overlord that we are seeing today.
My advice to men is that they should avoid all these retired feminists like this Tiwa person, cos, like Leopards, they cannot change their spots
Begging to be taken in as a second wife is just a ploy to have some cover, gain some social acceptance before they recalibrate and push out again, cos their stubbornness like tar cannot be washed off.
Men are men. They are Lions and must be strong and caring.
Part of being a Lion is the ability to love, protect and build a sense of self-worth around your woman
For the woman, you must recognise his kingship, bow to it, and live to make him grow, for in his growth, you will find your Fulfilment.
As for Tiwa, my sister, I wish you luck, but pity the mumu that will fall for this and take you as second wife.
Let those who have ears listen; I have spoken my mind.
You can come and beat me
Duke of Shomolu