Let me come out in the strongest way since this matter started to strongly condemn the arrest of your brother-in-law, Law-Sammy, the reported and alleged possible arrest of your mother-in-law, and the trauma of your wife via a video recording of her crying and stating – I don’t even know what I’m begging for
As a colleague, Polygamist, I remain aghast at the handling of this matter, especially taking into consideration the huge age difference between you and your wife, which should ordinarily imbue you with a lot of patience
Granted, you may feel hurt and humiliated with the ongoing exposure, but your response should not be as if you are fighting your political opponents or other ‘enemies’ who litter your village.
When a woman is hurt, she would say things, she would damage things and verbally assault you
As a Polygamist, I am sure this would be your lot as it is our lot, cos of the sensitivity of balancing interests in a polygamous situation
Senator Ned, your first reported statement that your wife was on drugs, if from you, was strategically wrong as it not only damaged her reputation but also your reputation
Please, I beg you to stop all hostilities against your in-laws, pursue rapproachment, engage and seek compromise
I cannot even wrap my head around the arrest of your in-law, no matter what he has done, and especially since whatever he has been said to have done could have been triggered by this event
Regina is the mother of your children, a woman who has seen your nakedness, a woman you went through so much to woo and marry; you cannot now treat her like a mangy dog, no matter what.
You swore to love and protect her, and it takes a man to keep these vows, no matter the height of provocation
My dear Senator, I must say to you that I speak for all Polygamists when I say to you that you are not handling this matter well and as such, giving us a bad name
Oba Tejuoso had three wives, and they all wore the same clothes to every occasion
Polygamy means a higher level of intelligence, a higher level of empathy, a true sense of justice and a large heart to take insults, abuse and the rest while still fighting to maintain balance
Not every man can be a Polygamist. It takes a different kind of man to rise to that level where he can handle the challenges that come with it
If Regina is insistent on leaving, you must allow her her dignity
You must show her respect, ensure she is well taken care of, and carry the honour of once being your wife.
Dear Senator, kindly pull back, reaccess your options and deal with this matter in a very strategic and sensitive way
No matter what, I cannot see someone I once called my wife break down like she has and still be pursuing her family all over the place
This is making the public feel that what she is saying about you is all true
Please show some empathy, release Sammy, leave your mother-in-law alone, cos it’s beginning to look like a hostage situation
Allow her to be, when she is calm and within the comfort of her family, you may begin to slowly try to re-engage, that is, if you still want her
But if you don’t want her again, do not humiliate her, do not join her in the gutter, but rise above and behave like a true blue-blooded Polygamist and a Senator of the Federal Republic of Nigeria
Feel free to come and beat me
Thanks
Duke of Shomolu
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