I have been getting attention from very beautiful boys recently. It’s not as if it just started; it’s been a thing for the last ten years
When I mean attention, I mean sexual attention and the thing used to intrigue me
They are usually very young, my son’s age mates, and very bold, fashionable and socially conscious
They will come at me the way we go at women.
Flirty, and with circle conversation and then will be bold enough to ask for a date, and one or two have asked for sex
Now, getting attention from the female sex is something that I have come to understand
You see, women like power and a whiff of success, so they gravitate towards that
After each massive production, their attention is usually overwhelming. I get calls, messages and the odd Nude pics, all in an attempt to do the do
Initially I used to feel hollow, like empty and less of a man cos i am the hunter and didnt lije being hunted .
Still, I’ve now grown to understand that it’s momentary and a result of the high from the productions, they fade away and calm returns about a week after.
But this one, from boys, I am still grappling with it
The older queers have never come at me; it’s always these small boys that I can born that will be calling me Papi, Zaddy and all that
I once asked one, why all the interest despite my reputation with women, and he said – Edgar, you are a fine man
And I replied that there are women in this world who will never rate me, and he laughed and said they don’t see what we see
Two days ago I got a chat: Zadi, you are a fine man
This time from a queer in the South East, and I decided to engage him
But then he said, ” You are a fine man: your fingernails, your lips and your fashion sense
I said Thanks, but you know I don’t roll that way and he said I know; I’m just telling you that you are a fine man
I rushed to the salon to do my hair and shave and sat beside a scion of one of the richest families in Nigeria, and we got talking
I said to him, this thing is now an epidemic. A lot of young men are now queers some in the open and a lot more in the closet
He agreed, and then one of the barbers, overhearing us and with gold-tinted hair, joined the conversation and said – Oga, na your lips
Ohhh, everyone screamed. Wetin carry your eyes go there, my friend? asked him, and he continued
Oga na fine man; his lips are very attractive, and he has the finest nails I have seen as a pedicurist and immediately grabbed my nails and before I could say Inyang Ibok – my mother’s maiden name- he had splashed black nail polish on my pinkie
And said, see!!! I screamed, ” Remove it; I’m going to a big meeting. It’sbad enough that I have dreads and earrings; you now want to come and add black painted nails
I hear I am ‘dangerous’, and this to them is a huge source of attraction, and also my writings, my bold persona and my free living with a tinge of ‘ I don’t give a fuck’ being the main source of attraction to these queers
But let me say this – even though I have moved from a point of revulsion in my early adult life to a point of understanding in my adult life, it still won’t make me bend down or bend someone down
Tolerance and understanding for me is not approval or a call for engagement
I understand the peculiarities, the forces, the need and the culture that drives queer behaviour; I even admire their fashion sense, their ability to be in tune with their emotions and, much more importantly, the biological push for some and the need for society to make adjustments to accommodate them, but to be enmeshed in it, count me out.
I salute the courage of those who have come out, especially in a country where it is criminal and carries a long prison sentence. I also understand the need for the vast majority to remain in the closet, esp. with the ridicule and the isolation that comes with that; despite that, I do not have the potential to be a target
This my dick ehn is as conservative as you can imagine, bro, so stop calling me Zaddy.
Come and beat me
Thanks
Duke of Shomolu
Last modified: November 13, 2026
