Igho is a very handsome and super successful young man but he has just been reported dead.
According to reports, he died from complications of the cosmetic surgery he went to do in Thailand
Apparently, it is reported that he went for a Penis enlargement procedure, which went badly, and he lost his life
Now, people who do not have these issues may not connect with the mental anguish that goes with low self-esteem driven by a perceived less-than-standard physical appearance. You need to sit down with a person who feels less than complete as a result of small breasts, flat buttocks, wide nostrils, etc to understand what they go thru
We all followed Michael Jackson’s transformation from a wholly healthy, extremely good-looking young man to whatever it is he transformed into in adulthood
Now, low self-esteem drawn from less-than-stellar sexual organs is a whole different kinda ball game
A perceived small pick, tiny breasts, adjudged wide female organs, drooping testicles, and you have found a messed-up individual
Messed up, complete with a lack of self-confidence, extremely low self-esteem, shame, fear and a stupendously shy individual who hides from the world
Taunts and lack of understanding of partners make the situation worse
Men are usually better understanding, as they internalise their dissatisfaction with their partners most times
But women, in most cases, find it difficult to hide their dissatisfaction and would most likely let you know that ‘it didn’t take me there ‘, or it’s too small, and then they start avoiding you and making you feel small
This damages the individual and erodes self-esteem very quickly, which could impact life literally
Once, I had a temporary bout of erectile dysfunction, and with all of my self-confidence that is bigger than Third Mainland Bridge, I knew how it messed me up
When a lady says hello, I would squirm even if I had nothing to do with her.
I would lie on my couch staring at the withered part with shock.
I would run through thousands of clips of porn, and nothing would happen, and burst out in tears. Real tears o
Ego deflated, and when I’m in the midst of boys, and they are talking the usual way men talk, I’ll be quiet, reminiscing about my good old days
Then Dr Nwabuoko told me that after 50, this happens temporarily, that I should remove my mind and do other things, and it will come back
Thankfully, it came back stronger and bigger, but those few days, I saw hell psychologically and mentally
This was me that was born ‘normal ‘, talkless of a man who has to live his whole life with a small preek
It is no wonder that this set of people go to any lengths to redress the situation, no matter the risk
See Igho now, with all his success, he still didn’t feel complete; he must have been tired of all the taunts, the ‘I didn’t even notice you had entered’ when he must have been pounding for all of five minutes and decided to do something about it
That thing he did took his life, joining the long list of people who have gone trying to increase the size of their prick
So how does someone in this situation pull or push back, so they don’t go to Thailand and die like Igho
I will speak for the men since the women are not short of champions
Any man who feels less endowed must first come to what I want to call the ‘Fagbure’ style
Fagbure is a brilliant thespian who is albino.
You know how we taunt albinos and call them Afin and laugh at them cos they can’t see in the sun and all that
Fagbure calls himself Afin even before you open your mouth. He uses self-deprecating humour to protect himself and push you back
He will say something like – you know say I be Afin and I no fit see you
That way, he breaks the awkwardness, gives room for open and free conversation, thereby protecting his confidence and mental health
So if you feel you have a small preek, Fagbure it.
Talk about it openly with partners – at the first meeting, let them know you have small preek o, he no go reach there o and let that person decide if she will go ahead or not
When you bring it out, you say – I no tell you, see as he small and you will both laugh.
That way, no Taunts, no awkward silence, and both of you will start looking for middle-of-the-road solutions like toys, oral sex and other means of sexual satisfaction
The most important thing is to seek partners who will respect you no matter the size of your preek
Truth is that Vaginas come in different sizes, and this is not to say that a small dicked man should be going around with a tape rule or a deep stick like he is checking Engine oil; he should just realise that, for him, his search for a partner is now a little bit more sophisticated than the rest
He has to be more discerning, strategic and look beyond beauty, but where he would find compassion and support
A small prick should not be a death sentence; it’s part of life since we are all created differently
The challenge in it is now the search for physical and emotional compatibility, no matter the size and where u don try tire and you no see, use your hand and Vaseline, it will always be the right fit
Thank you
Come and beat me
Duke of Shomolu
Last modified: September 7, 2026
